Finding Mr Right

I am exhausted after 3 days of clinical...
im not meant to get up early every day...this new routine is hard...
im used to my weird random scheudules of work...

but for the last few days, ive been watching Oprah when i come home...
weird...cuz usually im not s fan...
today she was talking to some single 40 something year old woman about finding love...
this woman was nuts...she had a specific list of criteria she wanted in her future spouse...
the list was like 15+ items...and she wonders why shes still single...
basically Oprah told her she was nuts and needs to change her way and stop interviewing for a husband on dates...
she was supposedly setting herself up for failure because no one out there exists with all those qualities...
sometimes I wonder if thats true, if our expectations are too high...are we simply just setting ourselves up for failure?
I think that it is a little crazy when people actually have lists of what they're looking for...
it just seems a little extreme....and even if you find someone that matches all those qualities...
does that necessary guarantee that there will be chemistry and it'll work out?
Im dont think so ...what you think you want may not be what you need....
plus i believe that love/relationships seem to always come when you least expect it...
perhaps these relationships work out because you were caught off guard and thus didnt have any expectations...
You cant be disappointed if you have no expectations....
plus this way, you can actually get to know the person ....not dismiss them if they dont posses all the traits we all look for in our idea of the "perfect" significant other.....

Sometimes...just cuz they're perfect on paper, doesnt mean they're perfect for you....
ive had to learn that the hard way....it makes the process of moving on that much harder...
cuz your perception of the person is that they were your IDEAL, but in reality...your ideal may not necessary fit into your life and work out the way we all hope....